This has been done by several customers.
There is no specific schematic for it.
The fuel pump controller is looking to be triggered by +12v. The XFI supplies a ground normally to turn the fuel pump relay on. So you would have to use a relay. Let the XFI trigger the relay, which then sends +12v to the fuel pump controller.
Here is a link to the instructions on Aeromotive's website.
http://aeromotiveinc.com/wp-content/...9/12/16306.pdf
Your relay would go on the 16ga red wire.